TEXT: The Gospel makes Coaching different

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Trust in the Lord at all times, you people; pour out your hearts to him, for God is our refuge.

Psalm 62:8

Five differences between secular and Gospel coaching

Source of wisdom and guidance

  • Secular coaching relies on human knowledge and expertise, while Gospel coaching considers God the ultimate source of wisdom and guidance.


  • For example, a secular coach might use techniques such as active listening and open-ended questioning to help a client find solutions to their problems. At the same time, a Gospel coach might also incorporate prayer and Bible study to seek God's direction.

  • Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your understanding;
    in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6)

Goal-setting

  • Secular coaching may focus on achieving specific, measurable goals related to career, relationships, or personal growth, while Gospel coaching often emphasizes aligning one's goals with God's purposes and plans.

  • For example, a secular coach might help a client set goals for financial success, while a Gospel coach might help a client discern their God-given purpose and develop plans that align with it.

  • Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by renewing your mind.
    Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is--his good, pleasing, and perfect will. (Romans 12:2)

Approach to Success

  • Secular coaching may focus on achieving success and overcoming obstacles through self-reliance and personal effort, while Gospel coaching emphasizes relying on God's grace and power to achieve success.

  • For example, a secular coach might encourage a client to work harder and push through challenges, while a Gospel coach might help a client cultivate a deeper relationship with God to gain strength and perspective.

  • But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.'

  • Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me. (2 Corinthians 12:9)

Concept of fulfillment

  • Secular coaching may focus on achieving personal fulfillment and happiness through self-discovery and self-improvement, while Gospel coaching emphasizes finding fulfillment in serving God and living out His purposes.

  • For example, a secular coach might encourage a client to pursue their passions and prioritize self-care. In contrast, a Gospel coach might help a client find meaning and fulfillment in serving others and glorifying God.

  • Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. (Colossians 3:23-24)

Perspective on failure

Secular coaching may view failure as a setback to be overcome through perseverance and learning from mistakes. In contrast, Gospel coaching sees failure as an opportunity to grow in faith and character and as another moment where God's forgiveness is needed and available.

For example, a secular coach might help a client bounce back from a career setback, while a Gospel coach might help a client find hope and redemption amid personal failure.

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him,
who have been called according to his purpose. (Romans 8:28)